Let’s talk about understanding different perspectives of people. You see I have came to the conclusion that we all can learn to understand each other if we look at the other’s perspective of things. You see we constantly try to be one sided all the time but what if we walked a mile in the other one’s shoes. What if we not only understood our side but also the other side as well. What if we understood each other’s perspective. I believe this not only helps us look at both sides but it also will help us solve problems that we escalate all because we don’t understand what the other one is trying to say or do. Because at the end of the day it’s all about learning and growing and we can’t do that without working together. So I ask you next time you find yourself in a situation where things seem one sided, try to understand the other’s perspective of the situation. Even if they don’t understand yours at least you can try to understand there’s. Because it’s called creating closer for yourself even if the other one doesn’t wanna have it at least you have it. REMEMBER SELF CARE IS NOT BEING SELFISH.