What’s Your Opinion?

If someone asked you about your ex and you only bring up bad things, you are wrong. Because let’s face it you only bring up those bad things because y’all broke up, but I’m sure if y’all were still together and someone asked you about them you would give a complete different answer. You see, I have learned that this is a result of either you still missing that person or you are still hurt by the events that went on during the time y’all dated. You see so many people have something to say about their ex when asked and 90% of the time it’s something bad. This is the reason why in the next relationship that person gets in they end up bringing toxic stuff from the last relationship to the current one. Say your ex cheated on you then you find a new person to date, most likely you are going to be thinking that person might cheat on you too. Which then leads to trust issues and insecurities and then more problems because that person is going to have to prove each day that they are not like the person who cheated on you. And I feel like that is not fair, it’s not fair for the person who didn’t do anything wrong to you and it’s not fair to yourself when something good is in front of you, but you are trying to ruin it just by reminiscing about what happened. Which there is nothing wrong with reminiscing about what happen, but there is something wrong with not forgiving. When you tend to not forgive you tend to allow that pain to continue to hurt you even when you have moved on to someone else, mentally you haven’t moved on.

Random Thoughts Part 2

Starting off I want to say how at times I get tired of posting quotes. Not because I don’t want to do it anymore or anything like that, but mainly because I told myself that I will do more than post quotes. Told myself that I will actually cause a change not just with the words I say but with the things I do, with the actions I take, with the goals I achieve, and with the vision I see. You see, my goal isn’t to post motivational quotes all the time, it’s actually going out there and showing people that I actually want you to succeed, I want to cause a change in this world, and I would like for you to help me out. You see, we can cause a change in many ways in this world, whether it’s the things we say, the clothes we wear, the visions we have, the people we choose to help, or the energy we choose to give off. Whether it’s positive or negative we are still giving off a change to the world in some way. I feel even when we are going through tough times like the ones we are having now, we can still find a way to keep hope alive or even provide motivation to one another to keep each other going. Times like this remind me of why we are here and it isn’t to be scared and run away from our problems. It’s to face our problems head on which make us stronger and help us change the world for the better. But in order to change the world, each one of us must take the time to start with ourselves rather than start with someone else. You see, we can’t change the world if we can’t even change ourselves first. Have to remember it all starts with us and what we choose to do everyday.